Casual Sex

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

Is it considered casual sex when your having sex (with protection) with someone that you aren’t dating, but you’ve dated and your good friends?

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
Is it considered casual sex when your having sex (with protection) with someone that you aren’t dating, but you’ve dated and your good friends?

does it matter?

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

yea it matters...................

[Straightedgecat]

Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
Is it considered casual sex when your having sex (with protection) with someone that you aren’t dating, but you’ve dated and your good friends?

well if you have a strong relationship with them then i say no then it would not be casual sex... but i feel that the whole sex part of Straight Edge is not that large of a role.. if you have a strong relationship (dating or friend) then i see it fine to have (protected) sex with them.. yet if you just meet a girl on the street and then go fuck her.. then i deffinetly see that as being casual.. but with the sex part of Straight edge i feel that you make your own decisions but follow some what of a guidline.. but it is your choice..


JEsse-

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
yea it matters...................

why?

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

because i look down on it and i dont want to make myself and the chick look like sluts

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
because i look down on it and i dont want to make myself and the chick look like sluts

look down on what casual sex?

and so what if it is casual sex, what does that change or matter?

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

yea, if someone convinces me, its will end

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
yea, if someone convinces me, its will end

so you need someone else to be your moral compass? that's weak.

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

there is nothing weak about it, i dont know everything i could be messing things up right now, plus its not like id want to ask my mom or dad

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
there is nothing weak about it, i dont know everything i could be messing things up right now, plus its not like id want to ask my mom or dad

you're asking other people to tell you how to feel about something. rather than trusting yourself and your own feelings on the subject. that is weak.

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

i know how i feel about it inside(fuck yea go for it) but that just might be instinct, and i need to learn from others is this going to have more good out comes than bad or more bad outcomes than good

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
i know how i feel about it inside(fuck yea go for it) but that just might be instinct, and i need to learn from others is this going to have more good out comes than bad or more bad outcomes than good

at some point you have to do things and see if they're mistakes or not.

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

so you never get second thoughts or opinions from anyone

remeber back to you "back seat of a car days"

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
so you never get second thoughts or opinions from anyone

remeber back to you "back seat of a car days"

not typically about moral things. it's not like there is a right or a wrong answer you can get from other people most of the time. no one can tell you that things are going to be fine or not. and if it's something you need to get out of your system you're better off doing it and learning from the experience than constantly asking what other people think.

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

back to the first question would you? yourself consider it casual sex

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
back to the first question would you? yourself consider it casual sex

it all comes back to why does it matter if it's casual sex or not? if a label is what's going to stop you from doing something, doesn't that say something to you?

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

it says nothing about me, did i ever say any of this was going to impact anything?(answer that)

its a simple question and yes the label does matter becuase i dont want to make this awesome girl an awesome slut by having casal sex

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Originally posted by hXc_sXe_sxm
it says nothing about me, did i ever say any of this was going to impact anything?(answer that)

its a simple question and yes the label does matter becuase i dont want to make this awesome girl an awesome slut by having casal sex

read the first part of your post. and then read the second part.

you answered your own question.

[hXc_sXe_sxm]

back to it would you consider it casual sex making me and the chick sluts

[Wicked Brown]

Hell no you know the chick and she's a good friend
nothing wrong with two friends having protected sex
it's all in your head dude you are over-thinking it

[xvunderx]

because i look down on it and i dont want to make myself and the chick look like sluts

How can you look down one something and not know what you're looking down on?