need advice / losing patience

[headstrongxxx24]

i have a problem, for some reason i have lately become very (for lack of a better word) selfish in my beleifs. i have not always been sxe but i did make the commitment to be poision free. the problem is i am finding my self getting very angry and frustrated with people i know even my girlfriend who smokes cigarettes. its slowly building inside of me and i know im going to pop one day. anyone who has felt this way and can give me some advice on what they think would be great thanx

[xsecx]

i have a problem, for some reason i have lately become very (for lack of a better word) selfish in my beleifs. i have not always been sxe but i did make the commitment to be poision free. the problem is i am finding my self getting very angry and frustrated with people i know even my girlfriend who smokes cigarettes. its slowly building inside of me and i know im going to pop one day. anyone who has felt this way and can give me some advice on what they think would be great thanx

why are you angry and who are you angry at?

[headstrongxxx24]

thats just it im getting angry because they are not the same way as i am and do not share the same beleifs. i never used to be like this i used to always just let them be who they are i dont push anyone towards being edge but i dont know why its botherinhg me now

[xsecx]

thats just it im getting angry because they are not the same way as i am and do not share the same beleifs. i never used to be like this i used to always just let them be who they are i dont push anyone towards being edge but i dont know why its botherinhg me now

you have 2 choices though. either don't be around people who aren't sober/straight or learn to accept that everyone has their own lives and choices to make. You can't force someone to be sober or believe what you want them to. You need to spend some time thinking about why you're feeling the way you do and why you're angry now.

[headstrongxxx24]

thanks it just gets frustraiting at times

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thanks it just gets frustraiting at times

dude I definitely know the feeling. but that's why you gotta vent when you can and do your best to understand yourself.