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Wicked Brown
05-01-2009, 08:53 AM
hey i have a serious question. what if somebody you know is doing drugs and you are worried about them? I seriously need an answer!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so worried about her.
HELP!!! she won't listen to me, what should i say to her? she's getting out of control.
xsecx
05-01-2009, 10:16 AM
hey i have a serious question. what if somebody you know is doing drugs and you are worried about them? I seriously need an answer!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so worried about her.
HELP!!! she won't listen to me, what should i say to her? she's getting out of control.
The hard answer is that there really isn't anything you can do. You can't force her to stop doing drugs all you can really do is encourage her to stop but the decision to change is ultimately hers.
the best decision is to fall in love, how stupid it doesnt sound.
but u still can show some documentary about sequel of drugs.
XAdrenalineX
05-01-2009, 02:14 PM
Tell her you extremely disapprove, but you will be there for her if she wants to give up the drugs. :)
x.Xmiss_SmogX.x
05-01-2009, 08:52 PM
Tell her you extremely disapprove, but you will be there for her if she wants to give up the drugs. :)
I agree with this and what everyone else has said on this hread. You can force someone to give up drugs, all you can do it talk to her about the risks she's taking and offer your support when the time comes she wants to give them up.
I have alot f friends that drink alot and take drugs but i cant make them give something up if they dont want too.
the best decision is to fall in love, how stupid it doesnt sound.
but u still can show some documentary about sequel of drugs.
que?
straightXed
05-02-2009, 08:32 AM
que?
Lost in translation i am guessing.
Wicked Brown
05-04-2009, 05:46 AM
The hard answer is that there really isn't anything you can do. You can't force her to stop doing drugs all you can really do is encourage her to stop but the decision to change is ultimately hers.
thanks dusty, this is why you're one of my idols
xionseeker88x
06-02-2009, 07:52 PM
Bro its real hard man I had this one friend who was good when she was young but when she turned 18 she did a lot of speed and x she would call me late at night telling me that she woke up at a random guys house and can't even rember if they had sex or not (this was hard for me because I always liked her but me being a recovering drug addict I knew geting into a relationship would run the risk of me using again) in the end she started to cut her self and she finalily put herself in rehab where she is now and will be out in 2 months or so one thingman never give up on ur friend be there no matter what ur friend needs u more then u could ever know
chadfitzy
06-02-2009, 08:04 PM
Bro its real hard man I had this one friend who was good when she was young but when she turned 18 she did a lot of speed and x she would call me late at night telling me that she woke up at a random guys house and can't even rember if they had sex or not (this was hard for me because I always liked her but me being a recovering drug addict I knew geting into a relationship would run the risk of me using again) in the end she started to cut her self and she finalily put herself in rehab where she is now and will be out in 2 months or so one thingman never give up on ur friend be there no matter what ur friend needs u more then u could ever know
ive found this the same for many people,
my opinion is that you should not pressure her, but remind her your always there if she needs help, and if she gets so bad that she wants help, yiu can help her, but nothing else will really convince her other then getting to the lowest point, if you interfere severly chances are she'll grow to resent you, then she will haave no one to lean on
xionseeker88x
06-03-2009, 07:01 AM
Yeah man jus let her make her choice I know it hurts to see a friend in pain like that but be strong not only for u but for her as well chances are she is losing the will to fight so ur gonna need to give her strength
Wicked Brown
06-03-2009, 09:23 AM
well...she put the needle down but not b/c of what i said it is b/c she's pregnant...it might be mine
chadfitzy
06-03-2009, 04:36 PM
well...she put the needle down but not b/c of what i said it is b/c she's pregnant...it might be mine
that sucks dude, or maybee conradulations are in order? are you guna have the kid?
Veskou
06-03-2009, 05:44 PM
Well... if things REALLY (and I really mean REALLY) get out of control and she starts rullewling her life, I think you should tell her parents, but until then keep talking to her!
xsecx
06-03-2009, 07:10 PM
that sucks dude, or maybee conradulations are in order? are you guna have the kid?
a 15 year old having a kid isn't something you celebrate.
chadfitzy
06-03-2009, 07:54 PM
o, i didnt know he was fifteen, sorry
Wicked Brown
06-04-2009, 07:56 AM
guys i don't know what to do! i'm sitting here cryin! If it's my kid i wanna be there for it but..i just don't know! somebody HELP! i'm breaking down! MY LIFE IS SPINNING OUT OF CONTROL!
xsecx
06-04-2009, 07:59 AM
guys i don't know what to do! i'm sitting here cryin! If it's my kid i wanna be there for it but..i just don't know! somebody HELP! i'm breaking down! MY LIFE IS SPINNING OUT OF CONTROL!
go to therapy.
Wicked Brown
06-04-2009, 08:06 AM
go to therapy.
can't afford it!
chadfitzy
06-04-2009, 05:43 PM
talk to a friend in person
Wicked Brown
06-04-2009, 08:03 PM
talk to a friend in person
i want to tonight
x JAMES x
06-05-2009, 09:14 AM
www.fmylife.com
xWiglex
06-07-2009, 02:43 PM
People always tend to do drugs..
They don't have a mind, don't they?
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